
Who are you? How did we get here?
What if I had been more sexual? Was I not sexual enough?
How could you have done this to us?
Can our partnership be saved?
I just want to know what my truth is.
Finally. It’s out in the open. Now we can move on.
My partner has no idea and if they knew they would never stay with me.
I’m walking on eggshells, because they aren’t getting over it.
I am afraid that if I bring anything up, my partner will be too overwhelmed to move forward

Next steps
At Even If, we understand that discovery of sexual betrayal is life-altering, and post-discovery is a confusing and difficult time for both individuals in the partnership. We encourage you to reach out for help navigating this season of sobriety, recovery and healing.
Couples counseling following intimate sexual betrayal offers a specialized and supportive environment for the couple to navigate the complex aftermath of betrayal. With the guidance of a trained therapist, couples can address trust issues, explore emotions, and work towards building a foundation of honesty and truth. The counseling process focuses on fostering open communication, understanding the impact of betrayal, and developing strategies for healing. Together, couples can navigate the challenges, rebuild trust, and forge a path towards renewed connection and resilience in the aftermath of intimate betrayal.
