There is an abundance of resources on betrayal trauma. Not all are beneficial for each individual person. Please use discernment for what is helpful for your unique situation. Give yourself permission to listen if encouraging and empowering. Give yourself permission to STOP if upsetting, triggering or harmful.
This list is by no means exhaustive, but it can be a helpful place to start.
Dr. Barbara Steffens and Marsha Means’ Your Sexually Addicted Spouse: How Partners Can Cope and Heal
Vicki Tidwell Palmer’s Moving Beyond Betrayal: The 5 Step Boundary Solution for Partners of Sex Addicts
Claudia Black’s Deceived: Facing the Trauma of Sexual Betrayal
Maurita Corcoran’s House Interrupted
Carol Juergensen Sheets’ Unleashing Your Power
Michelle Mays’ The Betrayal Bind
Even If Mental Health Counseling 